你不必勉强自己和所有人都合得来。
You don't have to be compatible with everyone.
“幸福的关键不在于你们有多合得来，而在于你们如何处理彼此的合不来。”
——列夫·托尔斯泰
The key to happiness is not how well you get along, but how you deal with each other.
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宽容不等于无原则，
你应该有胸怀，但也要守住底线。
Tolerance does not mean unprincipled, You should have a big heart, but you should also hold the line.
当你能够从容的拒绝别人，你就会知道拒绝大多数时候并不是有意的伤害，相反只是诚实的表达自己的意愿。
When you take the time to say no, you'll realize that most of the time it's not meant to hurt, but to be honest.
善良是很珍贵的，但善良没有长出牙齿来，那就是软弱。
Kindness is very precious, but kindness does not have teeth, that is weakness.
这个世界的“无理取闹”之处在于对好人太过苛刻，
但对于坏人，却又过于宽容。
The "vexatious" of the world lies in being too harsh to the good people, but too tolerant to the bad people.
在这个社会中，好人需经“九九八十一难”，而坏人只需放下屠刀，便能立地成佛。
In this society, the good people need to be "ninety-nine eighty-one difficult",
and the bad people only need to put down the butcher's knife, they can stand to become Buddha.
善良要比聪明难，聪明是天份，善良是选择。
善良拔掉牙齿就是软弱，善良带上武器就是恶意。
Kindness is harder than cleverness, cleverness is talent, kindness is choice.
Good pull teeth is weak, good with weapons is malicious.
没有棱角的宽容,
不仅不能向世界传达善意,反而输送了你的怯意。
Tolerance without edges and corners,
not only can not convey goodwill to the world, but convey your cowardice.
年少时的我们，唯一不肯妥协的一件事，就是妥协。
When we were young, the only thing we would not compromise is compromise.
盲目的原谅与同情是对恶的纵容，
对善良的亵渎。
Blind forgiveness and compassion are the indulgence of evil and the blasphemy of goodness.
世间明明有那么多的美好和有趣，
你如果非要在那些无聊的事物和人面前妥协，以满足对方的要求，这其实是一种“自虐”。
There are so many beautiful and interesting things in the world,
if you have to compromise in front of those boring things and people to meet their demands, it is actually a kind of "self-abuse".
如果拼命证明自己优秀、善良，都没法让你得到认可，甚至被无视的话，
不妨试试证明自己很普通，并在适当的时候大胆说出自己的想法。
If trying to prove that you're good and kind won't get you recognized or even ignored, try proving that you're average and speaking up when appropriate.
成长不是学会向生活妥协，
而是学会面对不能妥协的时候，能有勇气坚持不妥协。
Growth is not learning to compromise to life, but learning to face can not compromise when can have the courage to insist on no compromise.
自己还在溺水的人，是无法救人上岸的。
愿你善良，且有力量和锋芒。
——《你的善良，必须有点锋芒2》
You can't save a man from drowning. May you be good, strong and sharp.
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